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You can't say you can't!

Journal Entry: Tue Jul 23, 2013, 11:51 AM
As a child I was a bright student, always used to grab among the first 3 positions in my class, teachers used to love me (I was never a teacher's pet though) and my mom and dad (specially dad) supported me with his heart and soul. We always have guidance/influence from others in some way or the other. I was fortunate enough to get them I guess. But there comes a time in your life where you need to move alone and build your own responsibilities, you need to make your own ways, you need make your own decisions and you need to choose the right path.

The world is cruel enough to pull you down every time you want to climb up. But you can't stop there. You have to move on. You can't say you can't!

I have seen a lot of phases in my life in the last 25 years. In deviantART everyone says they like the way I talk to people, the way I treat them and the way I guide them. May be I shouldn't use the word "everyone", perhaps it should be at least most of them says so.

I get a lot of people coming to me and say, "Hey, you do a great job!" or "You are so kind to people" or may be "You are the most fun-loving and crazy guy I have met in dA". My answer to these will be simply "I try my best to be good in every way possible".

I see many deviants starting up to learn some new form of art or may be new tools but later they give up. My question is why did you even choose to do something which you didn't even want to continue. The most common answer we get is "I can't".

The world we live in:
I know there are various circumstances in our lives which drives our emotions and capabilities to do things. But you can't stop something which you like to do. Remember, the biggest superstar in history just name anyone! does cry, does silly mistakes, does get bullied, does get embarrassed, does experience the same thing that a normal person does. Behind the screen, even I cry, I get hurt, I feel pain, I do silly mistakes, I get embarrassed, I lie or get scolded. But do you know how people win the world? It is very simple...They just don't give up.

If you have read this journal and want to see some real examples. Check the following videos. You'll know how special you are!

I watch them when I am low in my life









May god bless you,
Sid

P.S. Do consider :+fav: this blog so that you can read back whenever you need something to cheer you up. :)

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SpiderwebWisher Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thank you for sharing this. I've seen some of the videos before, but all over, this has enlightened my heart. :)
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2013
I am glad... Here take a hug too...  :hug:
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SpiderwebWisher Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Here's a hug in return: Hug 
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2013
:aww:
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spring-sky Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I love your life's philosophy . 
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2013
Haha thanks.. :)
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spring-sky Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconmypleasuresignplz: 
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Nata-senpai Featured By Owner Oct 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you for sharing this ;v; 
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:iconcyphervisor:
CypherVisor Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2013
My pleasure :)
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Celvas Featured By Owner Oct 20, 2013
There are people in the world who really "can't".
I only wish people who "can", but are "unwilling" would come out and say it true: "I don't want to."
Because usually, when you concentrate on finding a solution instead of the problem, you'll find a way.
Nothing worth achieving is void of a learning period that lasts a lifetime.

One mother of a muscle ache after an epileptic seizure, two broken fingers, and a concussion on top couldn't stop me from doing what I am passionate about.
If you're doing something and are happy to have an excuse for not having to do it for a while, then obviously you "can", but "don't want to". Simple.
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2013
Well, you are correct when you say you "don't want to". However,  when you say, 'there are people in the world who really can't' I do not completely agree with you. Yes, I understand there are extreme cases like say one's hands and legs are chopped off just to get them into begging for 'business' (I hope that you are aware that there are a business like this) But on the contrary, Even a crippled person could survive and be known to the world for something. Please note that I am just talking of the chances and choices that one can make to make something happen that's all. :)
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Celvas Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2013
Be known for "something". Not anything. All one can do is make the best of a situation and accept that some things are not possible (or sensible). Don't merely think crippled. Also think allergic, epileptic, schizophrenic. Not everyone can do everything, and that's okay. It's supposed to be like that. Otherwise, achievements would count for nothing.
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MizDawesome Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you for this. It was a decent pick-me-up from a bad day :)
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2013
You are welcome my dear! :hug:
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TiaVon Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh god, the homeless Korean boy video made me cry. Literally. asjkfbsdgsdfgsdjbhjk ;w;
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2013
I know. That one is very touching.
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TiaVon Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
And that Andrew dude.. his voice.. omg :faint:
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2013
Haha unexpectedly mind-blowing I know. :nod:
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TiaVon Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was more mind-blown by the fact that he never sang in front of anyone ever :noes:
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2013
Haha yeah :lol:
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Copper-LightSource Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2013  Student Digital Artist
The thing that I thought was really great about you is, you always seem to be giving back to the community with your tutorials, and you also are responsive to comments and questions. I know how hard it can be to deal with a regular inbox yet alone one like you probably have, I give you so much credit for that!

Also, this journal really cheered up a lot of people. I especially loved the one with the homeless boy, on how much he went through to survive and all the hard work and what he was willing to do.  It really made me fee a lot better
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013
Ah thanks! :huggle:

And I am glad that I could lift you up a little bit. Be awesome!
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GillianIvy Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
All the tears!  :crying: rvmp Pixel guy crying :weeping: Straight cry You're killing me.  Already saw two of those, but wow, orphan from a war zone singing "Imagine".  My feels, you got it.
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013
I know, they are like heroes to me! :hug:
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GillianIvy Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You sing and bring a whole room to tears?  :O
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013
Sometimes it's worth it! ;)
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GillianIvy Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:swoon: 
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megamiaki364 Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Love it! 
This one always makes me cry, but it is definitely my inspiration! www.youtube.com/watch/?v=qX9FS…
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013
That a really good video and a great inspiration! :nod:

Thanks for the share. :hug:
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megamiaki364 Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
My pleasure! :)
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TheArgoNinja Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Student Digital Artist
"You Can't."

There, I just did.
 
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
:XD:
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TheArgoNinja Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Student Digital Artist
I'm sorry. I have nothing against motivational journals like this. It's just when I see something like the title, I can't help but be bit of a smart ass. XD
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
That's okay. Everyone has got their own way of doing things. :P
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x-VivaerethAlonia-x Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Student General Artist

Thank you for adding a ray of light to my day.  Very much appreciated.

 

Have a wonderful day.

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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
You welcome! :huggle:

You too! :aww:
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x-VivaerethAlonia-x Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Student General Artist
:iconflyingheartsplz: Thanks! :iconflyingheartsplz:
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synyster-gates-A7X Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist

Here's an inspiration short film (20 minutes long) about overcoming the "I can't" and learning how far you can go. It's a good one.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=p98KAE...

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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
I didn't know nick was in a film. :omg: Thanks for the share! It was indeed a really great! :thanks:
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synyster-gates-A7X Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sure thing!
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
:)
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x-VivaerethAlonia-x Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Student General Artist
Thank you, too.  It all makes sense now...  I'm touched.  Changed.
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Clumsiestgirl Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I feel so fulfilled now, I feel like my life was great now its perfect, these people are so inspiring :')
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
:hug:
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ArtByCher Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013   Traditional Artist
:love:
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
:hug:
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colon-empire Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I just want to hug you and love you for this (: Thank you for posting, it brightened my day !! <3
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013
You are welcome dear! :hug:
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Sandy101010 Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Wow. This is just... So beautiful... Thank you very much for sharing these wonderful videos, I was really in need of them! 
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CypherVisor Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2013
You are most welcome! :hug:
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